What Grok Thinks About This Blog

garyskitchen.net is a personal WordPress.com blog (also referred to as a “food memoir”) authored by Gary, the same individual who runs lifeunderwriter.net under the handle SupremeCmdr.

The site’s tagline/subtitle is: “A food memoir of weight loss, family recipes, digital cookbook and nutrition information for family and friends”.

Key aspects include:

  • Core focus: Personal stories and reflections on significant weight loss (Gary describes losing around 200 pounds from a peak of ~370 lbs and maintaining a stable ~168 lbs at 5’10” for years), strategies for long-term weight maintenance, occasional family-style recipes (e.g., variations on “Badass Black Eyed Peas,” Texas Corn Bread, baked oatmeal, overnight casseroles, sweet potato dishes), and curated commentary on nutrition research/topics (gut microbiome benefits from coffee, probiotics, organic vs. conventional produce debates, ultra-processed foods, food subsidies’ links to obesity, etc.).
  • Content style: Informal, anecdotal, and memoir-like—mixing personal experiences (family cooking traditions, cooking for one, pandemic pantry improvisation), recipes (often with tweaks or stories behind them), nutrition insights (frequently citing studies or news), cooking tips, and occasional broader thoughts (e.g., on food policy, health trends, or random life observations). Posts can include photos, ingredient lists, cooking instructions, and links to related research or external sources.
  • Author background: In his “day job,” Gary is a life insurance underwriting professional/expert in mortality risk assessment (cross-referenced directly to his other blog at lifeunderwriter.net). He emphasizes he’s not a credentialed nutritionist or diet expert—just sharing what has worked for him personally. He’s also self-described as an amateur philosopher, good cook, bargain shopper, dad (“professional Papa”), blues guitarist, and published writer (mostly via his blogs). The blog is free (WordPress.com basic plan with ads), earns nothing, and includes no endorsements or monetization beyond that.
  • Connection to lifeunderwriter.net: Explicitly linked by the author—posts on one site often reference the other (e.g., nutrition/mortality overlaps like longevity, obesity risks, or health factors). The two blogs complement each other: one leans professional/insurance/mortality/underwriting, the other personal/food/weight/nutrition.
  • Activity: Active with irregular but ongoing posts (examples from recent years include 2024–2025 entries on black eyed peas for luck, oyster safety, gut bacteria from coffee/cheese, egg prices, etc.). It dates back at least to 2017 (older recipe posts) but serves as a living “digital cookbook” and family archive.

Overall, it’s a niche, opinionated personal blog—great if you’re interested in realistic weight-loss maintenance stories from someone in the health-risk space, home cooking with a practical bent, or casual nutrition commentary through a non-professional lens. Not a polished recipe site or strict diet blog, but more of a thoughtful, eclectic food-and-life journal.

Thoughtful AND eclectic!

ATTENTION PARENTS – Yes You Can!

Remember my post Tik Tok is bad for your health? Or Latest Tik Tok Trend – Eat Dirt? How about The Dark Side of TikTok – Toddler Milks? Don’t remember, eh? Well, here’s a post you won’t forget.

According to this article there are videos that have millions of views with comments “full of girls cheering each other on, romanticizing risky behavior and literally encouraging one another to ignore every red flag.

Encouraging others to engage in dangerous behavior against their own gut instincts is not OK, and the fact that the videos are drawing supportive and positive comments from other teen and tween girls proves how much the trend is resonating with these girls. Why the ‘Yes You Can’ TikTok Trend Has Parents of Tween & Teen Girls Sounding the Alarmhttps://www.sheknows.com/parenting/articles/1234887372/yes-you-can-trend/

You’re welcome.

PS – almost forgot this is a food blog, so here you go.

“Crunchy Teen” is a trend where teens publicly reject norms around food and nutrition in favor of some more controversial stances not verified by data or experts.Parents should know that many “crunchy teen” influencers repeat a lot of misinformation that can lead to harmful health suggestions. Why the ‘Crunchy Teen’ Trend Definitely Needs Some Parental Intervention — https://www.parents.com/what-is-crunchy-teen-11734514

You’re welcome, again.

Papa Zen #1

I’m starting a random series of posts for the youngest members of my clan.

“Fall in love with some activity, and do it! Nobody ever figures out what life is all about, and it doesn’t matter. Explore the world. Nearly everything is really interesting if you go into it deeply enough. Work as hard and as much as you want to on the things you like to do the best. Don’t think about what you want to be, but what you want to do. Keep up some kind of a minimum with other things so that society doesn’t stop you from doing anything at all.” Richard Feynman

Note: I’ve capitalized the P and Z in Papa Zen so I don’t confused with papa zen.